Secret Santa, minus the group-chat chaos

More wonder.
Less wrangling.

Bring everyone together, collect wish lists, set thoughtful exclusions, make a private draw — then talk to the person you drew without giving yourself away.

Create your exchange

Free to use · No credit card · Private assignments

This year’s exchange

The Holly Jolly Crew

Ready
MMayaWish list ready
TTheoWish list ready
NNinaWish list ready
SSamWish list ready
AAlexJoined
5 people · Ready to draw
🎅

Your Secret Santa

Humbugg never says who is typing

Be honest. What size are you, really?
Medium. And I know it’s you, Theo.
Ho ho no.
Write to your Santa…

The chat

Ask them anything. Stay a secret.

After the draw, every person gets two private conversations: one with the person they drew, and one with whoever drew them. You see your recipient’s name. They only ever see “Your Secret Santa”.

  • Sizes, allergies, “do you already own this?” — asked and answered without a middleman.
  • Messages arrive live, and an optional email tells you one is waiting without saying who it is from.
  • Rather not be asked? One switch turns the chat off for your gift.

Included in Free.

How it works

From invite to exchange in three easy steps.

01

Create your group

Choose a date and budget, then share one private invitation link.

02

Make it thoughtful

Everyone adds gift ideas, avoidances, and an optional delivery address.

03

Draw with confidence

Set pair exclusions, lock the group, and reveal one private recipient to each person — with a chat to ask them anything.

Ready when you are

Make this year’s exchange feel effortless.

Start your group